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Day 6: Re-Living you inner being : Happy Relationships

Shashank Lalwani
Shashank Lalwani
Day 6 : 21 Days of Awesomeness

The right intentions for Happy Relationships 

Never do anything for anyone, do only for yourself. Sound selfish, but herein lies the secret of being selfless. 

With relationships often are attached words like sacrifice, compromise and adjustment. 

Each word sounds more like a suffering rather than happiness. Right ?

Relationships give us the opportunity to do a lot for others, but we need to check our intention. If we think we are doing it for them, then we could be doing it outwardly but not necessarily be happy inside. 

If we have negative thoughts of unwillingness or resentment and we do the right action, neither we nor they will be happy, because they will receive our mental energy. And then we will feel we did so much for them and they are still not happy. 

Before doing anything, introspect - why do I want to do it ..(because they will be happy) …Now, why do I want them to be happy…(because they matter to me and there will be harmony in the relationship)…if there is harmony, I will be happy…so I am doing it for my happiness, not for them. Agree ??

Actually we are always doing it for ourselves, but we believe we are doing it for them. We are not making any sacrifices or compromises, we are doing it for our own happiness and this is liberation. We no longer feel like a victim; we are doing everything for our own self; we are responsible for the consequences of the decision and most important we don’t expect them to do anything for us. 

Let’s think of all the things we feel we have done for people and yet felt very let down by them…let’s check today, till we finally come to the answer – I was doing it for myself. When you realise any one moment just type in comments 
“Yes , I was doing it for myself” 

Cheers and have a great day☺️

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